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Thursday, October 13, 2005

Beautiful Recipes with Nurlea Laurielle - Strawberry Shortcake



Today's recipe: Strawberry Shortcake


This streamlined version of an American classic makes an impressive summer dessert or centrepiece for a special tea table. Based on a quick, light scone mixture and filled with strawberry yogurt, whipped cream and lots of juicy fresh strawberries, it is easy to make and simply irresistible.

Serves 8
250g (8½ oz) self-raising flour
1 tsp baking powder
72g (2½ oz) unsalted butter, cut into small pieces
3 tbsp caster sugar
1 egg, beaten
4 tbsp semi-skimmed milk
½ tsp pure vanilla extract
1 tsp icing sugar

Strawberry filling
340g (12 oz) strawberries
90ml (3 fl oz) whipping cream
85g (3 oz) strawberry yogurt

Preparation time: 15 minutes
Cooking timeL 10-15 minutes

1. Preheat oven to 220ºC (425ºF, gas mark 7). Sift the flour and baking powder into a bowl. Rub in the butter with your fingertips until the mixture resembles fine breadcrumbs. Stir in the caster sugar and make a well in the centre.

2. Mix together the egg, milk and vanilla extract, and pour into the dry ingredients. Gradually stir the dry ingredients into the liquid, then bring the mixture together with your hand to form a soft dough. Gently pat the dough into a smooth ball and turn it out onto a floured surface.

3. Roll out the dough into a 19cm (7½ in) round. Transfer it to a greased baking sheet and bake for 10-15 minutes or until well risen, firm and browned on top. Slide the shortcake onto a wire rack and leave to cool.

4. Using a large serrated knife, slice the shortcake horizontally in half. With a large fish slice, lift the top layer off and place it on a board. Cut into 8 equal wedges, leaving them in place. (If you like, for an attractive finish, trim a fraction off each cut so that the wedges are slightly smaller.) Place the bottom layer on a serving plate.

5. For the filling, reserve 8 whole strawberries, then hull and thinkly slice the remainder. Whip the cream until it forms soft peaks. Stir the yogurt until smooth, then gently fold it into the cream until evenly blended.

6. Spead the cream mixture thickly over the bottom shortcake layer and cover with the sliced strawberries, pressing them into the cream.

7. Sift the icing sugar over the top of the shortcake wedges. Carefully put the wedges into place on top of the shortcake. Slice each reserved strawberries lengthways, leaving the slices attached at the stalk end, then open the slices slightly to fan them out. Place a strawberry fan on each wedges of shortcake.

* Raspberries, blueberries and stoned cherries can all be substituted for the strawberries.

Each serving provides: kcal 275, protein 5g, fat 14g (of which saturated fat 8g), carbohydrate 34g (of which sugars 10g), fibre 1g, good source of vitamins A, B and C group.



Haiyoh! Mrasalah mek nak cuba LAIN sikit - I wonder leh tukar the strawberries to peach dak? Mek nak coba lah! Once dah siap, harus mek nak snappy² pic shortcake itiew dengan phonecamera morah mek nih! Hehehe... Macam senang jer kan? LETS la u ols! Lets mencoba hari ini! Hiks!





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Posted at 1:33:47 pm by Nurlea Laurielle Lai Lee Abdullah




Bloggers Idol 2005 - 9th Weeks' Poll/ Votings


PLEASE TAKE NOTE:

Dalam this poll, users are allowed to vote MULTIPLE bloggers - meaning, a user gets to vote more than 1 favorite blog/ blogger. TAPI, the poll ONLY allows you to do a vote, ONCE a day. Nak vote again, can - mai balik page mek esok, nah? (make sure u ols dos clear cache and cookies, ok? Hehehe)

And PLEASE note that the poll WILL closed for voting on SUNDAY, October 16th 2005 at exactly 12 noon MALAYSIAN TIME - RESULTS will be out on MONDAY, October 17th 2005 by 9am MALAYSIAN TIME. Thanks!


This week's poll/ vote will determine THE FINAL 3 bloggers who will be competing in NEXT WEEK'S FINAL ROUND of BLOGGERS IDOL 2005!


Vote for your favorite blog/ blogger(s) ; NOTE: Blogger with the lowest total points (votes + juries evaluations) will be eliminated. Good luck!!!
Imah Lenggok
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Posted at 12:00:00 pm by Nurlea Laurielle Lai Lee Abdullah




"Interview With Lady Laurielle in person" - katanya! Hiks!


Aiyoyoh!!!!!!!!! It is tooooooo 'terharu' and sexciting sangat (opps! I meant EXciting!!!) to not make this as an entry. NO, bukan riak or bongkak i.e SOMBONG nah - its just, WOW! Mek seriously tak menyangka mek telah dipilih oleh this fella utk muncul dalam assignment dia! Mek rase macam diiktirafkan la pulak (ok now we're moving to the riak part a bit - owh hush now 'Riak', be quiet! Hiks!).

Mek received this email dari sekian² nama, dari sekian² email - tadik jer. Mrasalah mek sharing maring kan ape contentnye...



From: xxxxx (xxxxx@hotmail.com) Add to Address BookAdd to Address Book
To: lea_laurielle@yahoo.com
Subject: Interview With Lady Laurielle in person
Date: Wed, 12 Oct 2005 23:45:21 +0800

Hello, hi Lady,

Well, my name is xxxxx. I'm a student from one of a private instituition in Cyberjaya taking up a diploma course in film and television. Currently this semester we are being assigned to direct a short documentary regarding current affair happenings in Malaysia. And on my part I have chosen the topic regarding the acceptance of the Transsexual Community in Malaysia. So, I was wondering if I could meet up with you and get an interview with you personaly on camera regarding this issue and what you think about it. Since you have gone through a lot and most of the Transgender community in Malaysia look up to you I thought you were the best candidate for it. The production will be conducted within this week till wednesday next week on the 18th of October. If you are willing to take part please I would like to know your availability and where we could meet up.

Your contribution is very highly appreciated.

Thank You,

xxxxx


HOW NOW!? I mean, sebelum² nih, mek tak pernah menyangka org nak interview mek in blogs (Thanks to CD's and EJ MyOrange, mek diinterview mereka - thanks u ols! Mek terharu ALSO! Hiks!) - But now, in video!?! As part of assignment!? Owwwhhh mek gumbira - mrasalah mek nak jerrr cakap kat dia suruh buat penggambaran itiew di malam hari sajo. Kang buat siang², sah sah pecah romah! LOL! (macam la malam² pon mek tak pecah lobang? Miss Universe 2004 event??? Ginger, ring a bell on that? LOL! Mati la sorang bekas ratu mek carut HANJENG malam tu dan terus SENTAP! LOL!)

BUT (ahhh yes, there's that 'but' again) - mek had to mintak maaf banyak² kat dia sebab tak dapat nak tolong dia utk assignment video documentary/ interview nya dengan mek itiew. Yer lah, sah sah mek kat Kedah mek cakap kat dia. Cam mano? Even if mek take the 1st flight out of here ke KL, haiyoh! HAZAB la - mek gemuks sundel! I cannot afford to be in public/ camera or video sebagai BELON!? LOL!

Tapi seriously, bukan soal rupa or kurus ke gemuk ke mek sekarang ni. Persoalannya, kalau mek nak bantu assignment dia, mrasalah mek kena ke KL/ Cyberjaya. Nyeh - flight tix mek sapo nak spedo? Penginapan mek? Make Up artiste mek? Hair styler mek? Designer mek? HOW!? (haiyoh - NOW dah bukan RIAK or SOMBONG - nih dah kes VERANGAN nak mampos dah nih! LOL!) - AGAIN, seriously: I wouldn't mind helping xxxxx nih tapi, masalahnya mek jauh la now. Kalau dia cakap sebulan dua awal, maybe I could have arranged something, kan? Tak per la - tak der rezeki nak masuk video, kan? Hiks (mati la Khairie Kie yang tiap² minggu, show dia dirakamkan masuk ke player dan uploaded kat blog dia! LOL!)

Namun, walaubagaimana sekali pun, xxxxx, if u're reading this - SERIOUS mek SUNGGUH terharu ok sebab u ols pilih mek of all other ppl (mrasalah mak hayem² lain yang veteran² semua cekak pinggang sentap sebab tak terpilih utk dijadikkan model for the documentary itiew! Hiks - EH? Model, or MODAL? LOL!). Tapi u ols, (xxxxx) kalau nak dilihat dari segi "you have gone through a lot" dalam dunia drag / ts nih, mek rase, mek dinch sesuai kot. RAMAI lagik yang layak u ols. Mrasalah kalau u ols nak mek suggest sesiape, let me know, k? Maybe they can help. U nak yang grad dari US? We have LeeZ dan Ginger (siap gaji more than 5k dan berkereta executive mewah, sundel!), we have Imah the STAR lecturer, we have BS the Immigration's Miss Alasan, we have Miss GG the Account expert who only drinks susu soya dan green tea (kalau u ols pilih dia, sila focus pada giginya sahaja yer! Mati la mek!) and others - u just name it, mek akan cuba carikkan pengganti u ols. I bet they all boleh bantu u more dari mek yang dok terperonyot kat ceruk kampung bergelar BANDARAYA (nan ado) nih... hiks! But anyways, THANKS AGAIN ya xxxxx!!! And may God bless ya and good luck with ur assignment!!!

*PS: Gee, awat entry aku pasal nih panjang jugak ek? Walhal reply mek kat si xxxxx itiew punyer lah pendek - sial jer! LOL!






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Posted at 2:02:02 am by Nurlea Laurielle Lai Lee Abdullah




Preview on what's cummin' soon! Hiks!


Nih, mek nak preview sikit. Ade story/ gossip terbaru... and ade kaitannye dengan pak we kite nih...



Hehehehe... candiew dak? Ok jer la la la la la la la la for me. Hiks! Dia nih kawan kpd my good ol' gal friend. We went out minum² tadik (semalam) lepas trawih katanya. Hiks! Mrasalah mek buat trawih 8 sajo instead of full semua sekali, kan? Hiks... Ooopocot! Cannot tell all la details story nih. Nanti tak syiok la once mek nak buat entry pasal kesah ini.

Dan yang penting, mek curik² snappy² pic dia, ade lah dekat 20 pics. Masalahnya Maxis MMS pulok buat hal! Connection down la pulak! Jadik pic nih satu jer yang sempat mek sent out from my Nokia 7200 itiew ke my email via MMS itiew tadik. Just hate it when Maxis MMS buat hal! Urgh! Anyways, mrasalah menanti... hiks! Mek suke nengok muka dia - cute (for me la kan... LOL!) For more info, nenanti mek updatekan, NAH!? LOL!






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Posted at 1:36:37 am by Nurlea Laurielle Lai Lee Abdullah



Wednesday, October 12, 2005

Sombong...


Dearest all, readers and viewers, friends and strangers of my blog, Assalamualaikum Warahmatullahi wabarokatuh...

I don't know why but I feel I just have to write about this issue/ topic; it's like, there comes a time when you suddenly got an idea to write about something, a specific subject - but never know why you got that urge to write about it. And yeah, I guess I got it alright. I wanna write about this, but clearly, I myself pun tak sure why I nak write about this. I feel that if I don't write about this, I tak senang duduk. And if I do, maybe this feeling of uncomfy and uneasy will go away... (I hope)...

So in this particular entry, I'm here to discuss about 'Sombong'. I wanna go stage by stage, so lets start things off with the definition of 'Sombong'...

"Sombongnya dia... orang tegur pun tannak jawab?"

"Eh, jgn kawan ler dengan dia tu. Sombong nak mampos!"

"Kenapa makin sombong sangat sekarang ni?"

Adakah perkataan 'Sombong' yang kita gunakan dalam ayat² kita seharian tu, betul? Are you sure u've used the word 'Sombong' dalam konteks yang sepatutnya? - Melalui tiga contoh ayat yang selalu digunakan diatas tu, the answer is - NO.

What is Sombong?
Clearly, kite semua tahu yang the word 'Sombong' boleh jugak digantikan dengan pelbagai nama² lain, like, 'kekwat' (majority hadek² semua tahu kekwat nih as sombong), 'belagak'? (like, arrogant - bongkak ie cakap besar and that kindda thingie) - org² tua dulu² always kaitkan 'sombong' as 'bodoh sombong' which means dah la bodoh, lagi nak belagak pandai ie sombong (which in my opinion is the actual meaning of the word 'Sombong' i.e Bongkak);

But sometimes, it is so funny, when someone tu tak kenal someone else, lets just say A dan B here in this example. A sees B yang duduk diam, tak senyum tak ape, just sitting there alone, terus A cakap B sombong; penah tak go through that experience? Adakah apa yang dilakukan B tu boleh didefinisikan sebagai sombong? Pada pendapat mek, I don't think so. Tapi rata² menyatakan sekiranya someone persis B ada dalam situasi tu dengan tingkah lakunya yang sebegitu, itu tandanya dia sombong - betul tak? Rata² la pemahaman orang cam tu.

Tak kenal maka tak cinta, correct? So if you tak kenal orang tu, dan kalau orang tu tak senyum dan tak bercakap ape², cam mana u ols boleh klasifikasikan org tu as sombong? Even if u dared urself to go and tegur that B fella, and if that B fella macam ndak tak ndak jer cakap ngan u, senyum pun macam lite², does that make B tu sombong? I don't think so. Maybe B diajar not to speak to strangers? Not to smile at strangers? How? Or simply, mek rase, B tak sombong, sebab, B tak buat apa² yang menjelaskan definisi sebenar seorang yang sombong. The correct word to decribe B is - penyengap or pendiam, or, tak pandai bergaul, maybe? Or sememangnya lumrah alam, kalau belum betul² kenal, tak kan nak go all out to be really friendly? You don't wanna be called Overfriendly now, would you? For some, "Biar lah overfriendly, jgn org gelar sombong" Masalahnya, kalau you just wanna be quiet, takkanlah itu buatkan u seorang yang sombong? Masalahnya sekarang, ramai tak paham bebetul apa itu Sombong...

What is the real definition of sombong i.e. arrogant? According to Merriam-Webster Online dictionary, the word Arrogant (Sombong) means:

Main Entry: ar·ro·gant
Pronunciation: -g&nt
Function: adjective
Etymology: Middle English, from Latin arrogant-, arrogans, present participle of arrogare
1 : exaggerating or disposed to exaggerate one's own worth or importance in an overbearing manner <an arrogant official>
2 : proceeding from or characterized by arrogance <arrogant manners>
synonym see PROUD
- ar·ro·gant·ly adverb

So basically sombong = arrogant = angkuh, tinggi diri, dan suatu perlakuan yang mempertingkatkan kehebatan nama sendiri bagi mencapai kepentingan diri dengan keadaan yang melebih²? Jadi dari sini, jika me nak bezakan dengan maksud 'Sombong' yang definisinya me dapat dari www.karyanet.com.my, basically tak der lah bezanye sangat:

Keputusan carian untuk Sombong
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Carian 1 hingga 1. Halaman 1

1. Sombong - menghargai diri sendiri dgn berlebih-lebihan; tinggi hati; bongkak: Jangan berkawan dgn orang yg ~.

So dengan ini boleh la kita simpulkan bahawa sombong/ arrogant means perlakuan, dimana, someone tu buat bebende yang telah dinyatakan dalam definisi² di atas tu.

NAMUN, oleh kerana pendapat umum mengenai SOMBONG itu berlainan dari apa yang telah didefinisikan oleh Kamus Dewan Bahasa dan Pustaka serta Merriam-Webster Dictionary, jadi disini, mek will teruskan entry 'Sombong' ini dengan menggunakan definisi masyarakat umum yang very pelbagai jenis maksudnya.

Generally, what are the reasosn behind org gelar that someone tu as sombong?
Macam² sebab actually, on mengapa people would wanna gelar someone tu sebagai sombong. Again, sombong here bukannye bermaksud seperti apa yang telah diterangkan diatas. I'm talking on actual facts, on what ppl claimed 'sombong' to be as just simply, berlagak or play quiet dan bukan dari segi konteks bercakap besar, angkuh dan takbur i.e riak. (yesss... riak is actually a better nama lain for sombong yang diterangkan oleh kamus² online tu tadi - tapi riak is not what most ppl maksudkan when they say about 'sombong'). Berikut adalah contoh² situasi yang berlakunya tuduhan seseorang itu as sombong (dalam contoh² berikut, lets just say si sombong itu bernama X) :

"X tu sombong lah. Orang senyum kat dia, haram tak senyum balik pun! Kalau tak kenal pun, senyum jer la"
Owh so, kalau si X tak senyum balik kat kita yang senyum kat dia pada mulanya tu, tu maknanya X tu sombong la? Namanya X tak kenal kita, takkan la kawan tu nak senang² senyum kat kita? I mean, ever heard of senyuman pada strangers can sometimes lead to padah? What happened to a stranger guy who senyums to a girl di bas stand? She ended up getting raped for returning that smile. So salahkah, I mean, Sombong kah si X kalau he/ she feels to reserve his/ her smile, just until one gets to know him/ her?

Pengalaman Lea: I've experienced this one too many time. For me, senyum tu memang lah sedekah tapi takkan lah sampai orang yang kita tak kenal hujung pangkal asal usul nya i.e strangers pon kita nak senyum also? And for that matter, I've been labeled as sombong. Seriously, where's the kalau tak kenal, maka tak cinta? You don't know me and vice versa - and I get to be labeled as 'sombong' just because I tak senyum to someone yang I tak kenal? Kang orang kata gatal mengada² la pulak? Or worse, "Gila ke Lea tu semua orangnye dia senyum... senget la tu" Dah kena labeled senget pulak? For me, kalau orang senyum kat I and I don't return the smile, TAK PER. JGN kalau org senyum kat kita, dan kita TARIK MUKA MASAM - itu baru cari padah jugak.

"X tu awat diam sangat? Ala - sombong lah tu. Maklumlah, anak org berada?"
Adakah diam tu salah? Dan semestinyakah jika anak orang berada tu sombong? Satu tanggapan yang I would have to say "BULLSHIT!" So what kalau si X tu memang pendiam orangnya? That doesn't make him/ her sombong? And what's with dilahirkan dalam keluarga berada? Kalau dia anak orang lot dan suka diam, itu sombong ke? Sombong dikalangan orang berada/ kaya is when si dia ie. X mula cakap bangalo dia ade berape bilik, barang² beli kat mana? Kerete ade berape bijik? Gaji berape ribu? And stuffs like that - and worse, kalau orang tak tanya dia pi citer - now THAT'S when I say orang kaya sombong menunjuk²

Pengalaman Lea: Sometimes kalau kita nih jenis air muka dah memang nampak persis sombong, anything yang berkaitan dengan kita pun jadi mangsa. Personally, kalau ramai yang kenal Lea outside this blog, ramai mengaku muka Lea sombong - tapi that is before they get to know me. And before kenal mek, diaorang would associatekan me being anak bigshot, sebab tu sombong i.e kekwat. Well, who can stop these ppl dari buat tanggapan sebegitu, kan? But sometimes it is so sedeh when ppl say you yang diam dan berair muka sedemikian, hanya kerana u anak orang berada? Masalahnya diaorang kenal ISI HATI BUDI ke, atau diaorang kenal PANGKAT yang menyebabkan diaorang classifykan me as Sombong?

"Aku tak paham lah. X dulu baik jer, sekarang very sombong. Kenape ek?"
Kalau dulu baik, sekarang tidak - itu namanya SOMBONG ke? Lain kot. What I understand is, kalau dulu X baik, sekarang X tak baik - tu namanya MANUSIA BERUBAH. Dan KALAU X berubah dari seorang yang lemah lembut dan rendah diri kepada seorang yang hati macam sial dan takbur dan angkuh, serves X right ppl call him/ her as DAH SOMBONG. Tapi kalau X yang dari baik berubah jadi someone else, less baik, tapi tidak angkuh bongkak cakap takbur bagai, itu bukan namanya SOMBONG - tu namanya perubahan pada diri X kepada someone yang less baik. It could be jahat for all u know tapi pointnya sini, jgn sesekali tuduh orang yang berubah tu, sikit² as sombong, sikit² sombong. Kenape, kalau orang berubah dari baik kepada something else, seharusnya dari baik ke sombong ke ke? Kalau X berubah dari baik kepada seorang pencuri, dia digelar jahat ke, atau sombong? Penggunaan perkataan sombong, AGAIN sudah salah tema.

Pengalaman Lea: I have reasons sometimes why I berubah from this perangai to another perangai, but SOMBONG has never been an option to the reasons. Period.

"Kalau nak tgk X dengan Y, X sombong sikit. Y peramah jer, semua orang dia tegur..."
This is funny. Jadi kalau X tegur semua orang termasuk orang gila tepi jalan, does that make him not sombong anymore? Being peramah is one thing, tapi kalau overdose peramah pun, boleh mengundang padah, correct? Just becoz X reserves his/ her friendliness, that doesn't mean dia sombong? The word is picky - and as a human being, I have to say, one has the every right nak be picky. Tapi sayangnya, once orang being picky, ade kaitnya dengan sombong to those yang tak dipicknya. Tul tak?

Pengalaman Lea: Before I join the airline, I was VERY malu dan sangat segan to talk to strangers. I am not naturally born friendly to everyone dalam dunia ni. But luckily, selepas joined the airline, communications was no longer a problem for me. I get to talk to everyone dalam flight. Pun begitu, being too friendly telah membawa mek di gelar kaki ampu/ bodek kuat. Dan when I changed from being too friendly, to just friendly, they called me "Dah mula sombong la tu". Sometimes, I just don't understand SOMBONG...

"Tu bukan X ke? Sombong lah dia tu, duduk sorang² je?"
Duduk sorang², nak some privacy, sombong ke? I don't think so. Sometimes manusia nih they prefer to lay low and just be alone. So that doesn't mean diaorang sombong, kan? For as long as we live, we can never understand how another person feels, no matter how hard we try to feel it, no matter how often kita sebut "I understand how u feel" - the truth is, we don't. Sebab if we do, kenapa harus dipersoalkan orang tu sombong/ kekwat ke tidak, kalau dia prefer to be left alone, or memang hobbynya to sit alone and think of the things he/she wants to? Kan? I mean, pernah tak we tanya diri sendiri, kenape, why, si X nak sit alone and just menyendiri? Pernah we question why Amelina went menyepi? Nope - spekulasi saja yang membanjiri minda kita and one of the spekulasi - Dia tu sombong la... tu la sebabnya dia nak duduk sorang² jer, kawan tannak ape tannak. Tul tak? Pernah tak kita pikir ape masalah X? All we think about is us us us...

Pengalaman Lea: There were times when I was a lil' bit tensed, balik dari flight - lepas buat show, and etc. And sometimes there were things I needed think about on my own, problems ke ape ke, kan? And because of that, sometimes I just wanna be left alone - DND kindda thingie. Tapi because of that privacy I asked for, ppl labeled me as sombong. It was hard to explain to ppl at that time yang kadang², kita just needed to be alone to think apa yang terbaik, whats the solution to certain problems, kan? Sebab tu we wanna be alone - tapi takk, kite dicopkan sebagai sombong sebab prefer to menyendiri. Kadang² tu bertambah tensi jadi nya...

Nak conclude this entry pun me tak sure how, but what I do know is this - this is just another 'from the bottom of my broken heart' entry; I write, and you read...






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Posted at 7:44:51 pm by Nurlea Laurielle Lai Lee Abdullah




Bloggers Idol 2005 - 9th Weeks' Assignments; Submitted - published!



9th weeks' individual assignments; Theme - Mari Menasihat - Lets!


Berikut adalah tugasan2 individu setiap bloggers for week #9, dalam Bloggers Idol 2005 mengikut tema "Mari Menasihat - Lets!" - mrasalah!!! Hehehehe....
  • "Imah, saya tinggal bersama datuk dan nenek dikampung sejak berusia tiga tahun kerana ibu saya telah lari dari rumah. Dia tidak pernah datang menjenguk saya sehingga kini saya sudah berusia 16 tahun. Walaupun ayah tinggal berasingan, dialah yang menyara saya dan selalu datang menjenguk bila ada kelapangan (buat pengetahuan Imah, ibubapa saya bercerai ketika saya berusia 2 tahun). Beberapa bulan yang lalu, bapa saudara saya yang merupakan adik kepada ayah saya mengatakan bahawa saya perlu sedar diri kerana saya cuma hidup menumpang. Apakah memang benar saya hidung menumpan, sekalipun dirumah dati dan nenek saya sendiri? Saya amat tertekan. Tolong lah saya..." - Adik, Kuala Terengganu - assigned to blogger - Imah Lenggok

  • "LeeZ, saya berusia 22 tahun. Dua tahun yang lalu saya telah dipaksa melakukan hubangan seks dengan orang yang tidak saya kenali. Saya dapati bahawa vagina saya tidak mengeluarkan darah atau rasa sakit. Adakah saya telah kehilangan dara? Dua minggu lagi saya akan berkahwin dengan teman lelaki saya. Selama ini, saya tidak pernah menceritakan kisah silam saya kepada orang lain. Apakah kesannya apabila saya telah bersuami nanti? Ini kerana saya tidak mahu kehilangan orang yang saya sayang hanya kerana kisah silam tersebut. Apa yang harus saya lakukan, LeeZ?" - Lya, PJ - assigned to blogger - Leez

  • "Lee, saya mempunyai dua orang rakan baik iaitu A dan M. Kami menjadi rakan baik sejak dari darjah 3. Selepas darjah 6, kami bertiga belajar di sekolah² yang berasingan. A berpindah ke Sabah manakala M masuk ke asrama. Jika cuti panjang, kami akan berjumpa semula. Selalunya kami akan pergi shopping. Tetapi, sejak kebelakangan ini, saya rasa sangat tersisih. Setiap kali kami keluar bertiga, A seperti tidak mahu saya rapat dengan M. Dia akan menolak saya jika saya jalan berdekatan M. A dan M banyak menyimpan rahsia bersama dantidak memberitahu saya. Apakah yang patut saya lakukan?" - Insan dalam dilema - assigned to blogger - LeeUK

  • "Nasik, masalah saya begini. Saya berumur 20 tahun dan mempunyai seorang sahabat yang gemar menghisap ganja. Sudah puas saya menasihatinya, namun dia tetap juga tidak berubah. Saya tahu dia telah kecewa dalam hidup. Semua ini berpunca dari sikap bekas teman lelakinya yang tidak bertanggungjawab selepas disuruh menggugurkan kandungannya. Saya kasihan melihatnya dan ingin sangat membantunya, kembali ke pangkal jalan. Tapi saya tidak tahu jalan mana yang haru saya tuju..." - Sahabat kepada insan kecewa, Sibu - assigned to blogger - Nasik- removed from the contest: MSG FROM nasik: samekom Lea: nak bagitau sumthg nie... nasik officially tarik diri frm BI. komitmen kerja dan isu peribadi. good luck pada semua blogger yg lain naa..


  • "Taufix, saya berusia 17 tahun dan merupakan anak tunggal dalam keluarga saya. Sungguh pun begitu, saya bukanlah anak manja sepertimana yang sering diperkatakan oleh teman² atau saudara mara. Disekolah, saya berasa amat bosan kerana sering diejek sebagai anak manja oleh teman² khususnya budak² lelaki lain hanya kerana saya anak tunggal. Apa yang harus saya lakukan untuk membuka mata atau pun minda mereka bahawa saya bukan anak manja. Sebaliknya, saya adalah seorang anak lelaki yang berdikari dan tegas dalam membuat keputusan sepertimana yang diperkatakan oleh mama dan papa saya" - Boy Tunggal - assigned to blogger - Taufix

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So, tunggu hape lagik? Start your engines dan get yourself to these bloggers punye blogsites! LETS! Enjoy! Hehehe - jgn lupe komeng2 lah entry assignments diaorangs itiew; komen2 membina mampu beri kesan pada each bloggers... hehehe...

Juries? Apo lagik - LETS!!! Hehehehehe... U ols, the juries, ade sampai esok noon to complete your tasks as juries, memberi komeng2 vast (or the other way round... heheh) dan separuh lagi duty korang, juries2 yang adil lagik bijaksanas, (giving the evaluation marks itiew via email to me), mek expect not later dari Saturday noon nih, ok? Kapish? Good - then lets READ! Hehehehe...

Juri Jemputan minggu nih - VOLKS @ Vw! Hiks!


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PS: This entry akan diupdated kan from time to time jika dan bila perlu. Nak edit update apo? Err - tak der pa per. Just nak insert sikit kat link2 bloggers tu, and etc... nuthing much, nuthing fancy. Heehehehehe...

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Posted at 12:00:12 pm by Nurlea Laurielle Lai Lee Abdullah



Tuesday, October 11, 2005

PARAM di Sungai Terap, Kepala Batas


Ptg tadik kisahnya mek pi PARAM (PAsar RAMadhan) dengan si BS. Kami dinch pergi ke PARAM Stadium katanya. Instead, we went to PARAM di Sungai Terap, dekat Kepala Batas. Why? Katanya si BS, PARAM sitiew penuh dengan abang² tenterets terap katanya. Mek pong, ala² mrasalah semangat nak pi also! Boleh mek snappy² katanya, KAN?

Tapi sesampainya mek, ADO? NAN ADO katanya! Mek tuduh si BS propah (sebelum G tuduh MEK also propah, baik mek cakap BS terlebih awal propah kat mek!) - mek tuduh lah dia sengaja caras mek suruh datang sampai ke Kepala Batas, ke PARAM itiew, kononnye meriah abang tenteras... tapi, ape yang mek dapat? Nan ado snappy² lazart - yang mek dapat, kegagalan nak snappy²; dan mek also dapat banyak PELUH u ols! HAZAB la sitiew - panas nak mampos! Unlike kat PARAM Stadium, redup, dan tak panas. Dah la tu, DINCH ada abang² askars pon? ADE la - sekerat dua (BS tetap nak menunjukkan ado segelintir abang² tenteras, kononnye dia nak buktikan yang dia tak propah - OK lah, kau tak propah, but tetap ALASAN banyak! LOL! Mati la mek!)

Yang penting, BS ngan mek round de round 3, 4 round. Dan apo yang mek dapat? Sebungkus air oren, dadih sebekas, murtabak sebungkus - dan 5 pics nih ajo! Mrasalah esok lusa tulat tungging mek nak ajak BS pi tempat lain dah, THAT'S IT! NO MORE PARAM SG. TERAP ok! Hiks!

Lawak la dengan abang botak yang sorang nih! Percubaan nak snappy pics dia, tak menjadik 3, 4 kali ok! And bila dah dapat, haiyoh!!! (Why haiyoh? Yer lah - dia nih kalau dalam pic nih nampak cam dinch can diew, KAN? Tapi mrasalah kat luar, in real, dia very tasty. Tak caye, tanye BS, KAN BS kan kan kan????)


Hahaha! Yang nih lawak also! Mek nak snappy pix someone tau, tetiber dalam image tu, kuar gambar pakcik berketayap putih itiew mencoveringkan orang yang mek nak snappy² itiew. Tapi... ahhhhhh mrasalah walaupunm dinch dapat snappy² pic abang yang diovershadowkan oleh si pak cik itiew, cuba nengok ape yang mek dapat dalam pic nih? Abang ber cap sebelah kanan pic itiew. Dalam pic nih macam lite² jer, kan? Tapi in real, ALSO can diew ok! Hiks!


Kalau korang nak tahu, PARAM Sungai Terap nih, stall jual air nih laaaaa yang paling ramai abang² candiew jual air/ lepak kat situ. Berkali² mek cuba nak snappy, macam² tipu helah BS ngan mek buat, tapi mek TETAP dinch dapat snappy² pics abang² itiew, kan BS!? SENTAP! Macam depa tau sangat mek nak snappy² pics depa... hmmm!!!


Mek suka sangat abang ala ala daddy muda berbaju kerej biru berspecky itiew u ols. Dari tepi mek suka, dari depan also mek suka. Ala² chinese look siket, walaupun PAK (perut AGAK kedepan) katanya. Hiks! Tapi yang penting, akak yang tgh dok pegang handbag dia tu pulak yang feeeeeeeeling mek snappy² pic dia, motif!?


Saving the best for last? ADO? Nan ADO! Ini jer the best pic of abang² tenteras in uniform yang mek dapat snappy² u ols. Mrasalah! Hiks!


Statement of the day di PARAM oleh mek kepada BS: "Noq, tak der pong abang² 'Rela Abang Mati Dulu' (RAMD) kat sini u ols? Mrasalah yang ADO hanya mek yang 'Rela AKU Mati Dulu' dari nengok abang² tenteras yang nan ado! Hiks!"






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Posted at 11:54:02 pm by Nurlea Laurielle Lai Lee Abdullah




Beautiful Recipes with Nurlea Laurielle - Fudgy Brownies



Today's recipe: Fudgy Brownies


Most people's ideal brownie is one that is moist in the centre, almost gooey, and with a rich, deep chocolate flavour. This recipe uses both chocolate and cocoa powder; which gives the brownies plenty of chocolate flavour, and also contains muscovado sigar to gelp produce the desired fudgt texture.

Makes 16 brownies
85g (3oz) good dark chocolate (at least 70% cocoa solids)
100g (3½oz) unsalted butter
125g (4½oz) caster sugar
100g (3½oz) light muscovado sugar
1 tsp pure vanilla extract
2 whole eggs and 1 egg yolk, at room temperature, beaten together
100g (3½oz) plain flour
3 tbsp cocoa powder

Preparation time: 15 minutes
Cooking time: 30 minutes

1. Preheat the oven to 180ºC (350ºF, gas mark 4). Grease an 18cm (7in) square shallow cake tin and line the bottom with baking parchment.

2. Break up the chocolate and put it in a heatproof bowl with the butter. Set the bowl over a pan of simmering water, make sure the water is not toching the base of the bowl. Leave until melted, then remove the bowl from the heat and set aside to cool.

3. Stir the caster and muscovado sugars into the chocolate mixture together with the vanilla extract. Gradually beat in the eggs and yolk. Sift over the flour and cocoa powder, and stir until evenly blended. Do not overmix.

4. Pour the mixture into the prepared tin. Bake for about 30 minutes or until risen but still slightlly soft in the middle - a skewer inserted in the centre should come out with a few moist crumbs sticking to it. The surface will look cracked. It is important not to overcook or the brownies will be dry.

5. Leave in the tin for 5 minutes, then turn out onto a wire rack and leave to cool. When cold, peel off the lining paper and cut into 16 squares. If possible, wrap the brownies in foil and leave until the next day before eating. They can be kept like this for 3-4 days.

Each brownie provides: kcal 170, protein 2g, fat 8g (of which saturated fat 5g), carbohydrate 23g (of which sugars 18g), fibre 0g, good source of vitamins A and B group.



Mrasalah coba u ols! Dah tak perlu beli² lagik dah brownies - tadaaaaa! Dah boleh buat sendirik. Tak der lah susah sangat pong, kan? Selamat mencoba! Hiks!





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Posted at 10:57:35 pm by Nurlea Laurielle Lai Lee Abdullah




Berniaga di bulan Ramadhan


Yoooo lah... bulan Ramadhan tahun nih, mek ala² buat business kuih/ biskut tart (err... this tart mek juai even when it is not Ramadhan or Raya, kan? LOL!) dan other kuih muihs/ biskut raya also. Saje je u ols, mek buat business nih ; for the sake of fun and kot² la dapat carik duit lelebih sikit, kan... hiks!

So anyways, semalam my auntie (yang buat business tart dengan my mommy itiew) datang ke umah bawak 6 jenis biskut raya lagi, ok! Ala² dia nak suruh mek jual sekali dengan jem tart nye itiew. Tapi yang sedihnya, dia datang senang lenang jer bawak biskut² tu semua, dipackkan SALAH katanya! I mean, satu packet, dia letak 3 biskut yang sama jenis. MRASALAH banyak packet, kalau dah 6 jenis, KAN? Pastu, cam mana mek nak kasik orang/ customer mek mrasa, KAN? Kalau dah salah packaging cam tu, harus mek buat lain katanya...

Jadi temanye mek bawak lah biskut² tu semua ke pejabat pagi tadik (gara² ade masa-e-lah dirumah semalam dan also tiduran awalan serta bangun lambat pagi tadik - so tak sempat nak buat kat umah). Mek bawak lah kesemua 6 jenis kuihs/ biskuts itiew, yang ado lah dalam 5 packets setiap jenis (mrasalah 30 packets katanye) and then mek also bawak mai another biskut/ kuih yang dijual orang anak bekas Menteri Besau Kedah dolo² tu, Kak Eliana. Dia suruh mek jualan sekals biskut Arab nya. Over lah - jadi kaedahnye nanti dalam packet mek nak kasik sample kat orang itiew, mrasalah ado 7 jenis ek? (yes, mek dinch campuran aduks sekali dengan my jem tart sebab jem tart tu bukan skadar dijual pada bulan² perayaan nih jer... hiks!)

Over lah - semak sajok meja dalam bilik office mek dengan pelbagai kuih/ biskut/ KERTAS also! LOL!! Sedeh!


So anyways, lets la u ols, check it out - apo jenis kuihs/ biskuts yang ado...

Harus lah mek kena hide away harga auntie mek tolak kat mek - business beb. Busuk² nak gak untung sehengget dua tiga ke, kan? LOL! (mati la mak hayam Nabilla buat profit 8 hengget jual jem tart mek! LOL!)


Nampak cam biasa je kuih² biskut² Raya nih tau tapi mek PASTI confirmasi tasty sangat - macam Tart Jem itiew also lah. Don't be deceived by appearances! LOL!


6 jenis biscuits and cookies yang ado dalam sample pack itiew nanti...


Dan also, biskut ARAB katanya! Simple kan? Tapi mek suka - sedap sundel! Tapi dinch bols makan bebanyak katanya - kandungannya ape tah, ala, Gis? Yis? Ape tah - yang menggemukkan itiew? (as though mek tak gemuk lehhh sekarang nih? LOL!!)


So kaedahnye, mek kena bukak setiap packaging itiew, then, kena campurkan semua masuk dalam satu sample packet yang ado 7 jenis kuih/ biskuts nih semua. Mek ingat cam senang jer. Senang tu memang lah, cuma remeh! Banyak keje dan also bersepah serdak² cookies/ biscuits tu semua atas meja mek kan? Mrasalah semut mai hurung office mek esok... hik!

Dalam dok buat packaging utk sample packets tu, dlm masa yang sama, dok chat lah, dok on the phone lah - jadi macam multi-multitasking katanya, kan? HAMPIR² ok mek terngap masuk molot; bak kata Volks - Hiks, "You tu kalau dah buat keje kadang² tu tak sedar pon ape u tgh buat. Jgn bukak kuih tu dari plastic, dan supposed masuk plastic lain tetibe masuk mulut u jer... hehehe" Haiyoh! ALMOST ok, ALMOST! Mujuq lagik - kalau idak, mrasalah menangis tertinggal posa katanya! LOL! Dan yang penting, I just hate it when si Volks tu betul - mrasalah dia akan ketawa "Heheheheeheh" ala² "Don't you just hate me when I'm always right?" gittu! Arghhh! Hiks!

Penat jugak asing²kan kuih² biskut² nih, kan? Hiks! Dan yang penting, mek berjaya u ols! Mek berjaya! Hiks! Mrasalah mek nak start distributing kat area² umah mek dan kat kengkawan mek sambil nyanyi lagu... "Biiissskkuuuuutttt Rayaaaaa... Bisssskuutttt Raaayyyaa...!" Hiks! Ala² cam Siti Nurhaliza dulu juai kuih tu kan, ha... mrasalah mek also nak nyanyi jadik Siti Lea... bole? LOL!

Biscuits/ cookies yang dah ready dipackedkan...


TETAP semak office/ meja mek walaupun temanya dah habis siap asing² biskut² Raya itiew... hiks!


Tammau ka hampa yang dekat² dengan mek nih tanya berapa harga cookies mookies tu semua dan membantu kengkawan i.e mek dengan membeliknya??? (sambil jeling kat csi_X, Dala, Che-Detz, Ginger, BadarSila also! serta mereka² yang berada di kawasan² berhampiran) Hehhe... mrasalah, kot² mana tau, berkenan kaaa... boleh mai amik kat mek! Hiks! Tak gherti² nak contact mek!? Hiks!

Kesemua cookies/ biskut raya tu, setiap jenis, mek jual RM20 utk setiap kotak! Setiap kotak ado 50 bijik (sejenis jer la).

Kalau nak banyak² jenis, mrasalah order banyak² ngan mek. Diskaunsi utk kengkawan, ado... jgn risau, u no worried nah? Me gave u spesial diskaunt for frens. U just told me how much u want, me supplier to u! LOL! *mati la mek yang belajar Hengglish di sekolah pondok jer... oops!






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Posted at 5:00:46 pm by Nurlea Laurielle Lai Lee Abdullah




Aku di paksa kahwin...

*Sorrryyyy! Another 'pic-less' entry! HIKS!
"Aku dipaksa kahwin!"

Ever heard of that phrase? Nak kata 'selalu', personally for me, tak la jugak. Tapi ade la kadang² tu terdengar jugak here and there. Seriously, 'Aku dipaksa kahwin' boleh fall under two categories; dipaksa kahwin, dan merelakannyer serta gumbira about it! (that person maybe memang tunggu time jer nak kawin dengan orang tu, dan when dipaksa, bagaikan pucuk dicita, ulam mendatang la kirenye) OR, dipaksa kahwin, dan tak sanggup nak laluinya, serta SEDEYYY about it! (and yeap, this is the usual case yang kita dengar, kan?)

For me la kan, bab² kahwin nih kan, bukannye benda yang boleh dipaksa². It's like trying to get a nyah/ gayboy to berubah jadi lelaki sejati katanya. You can't force them, you can't force what's natural thing to do or to be, to just simply, ubah haluan and be something or somebody else, kan?

I mean, I always tell ppl whenever they asks me about the "bile" thingie... And my answer would either be,

"I will not change until the right time comes sebab if I do berubah from being me to someone that ppl claim straight and normal, before the right time comes, then, I'm only doin' it becoz of these ppl, and not becoz of I sendiri wanna change. And with that, jadinya paksaan, just to please ppl..."

OR I would answer...

"Bile - nak berubah? Nak kahwin? LOL! Tannak lah langkah bendul - I do have a single 'bengkok' big brother yang belum lagi sedia nak kawin dan belum teringin jadik 'lurus' ok... tak baik langkah bendul! LOL! Kot yer pun, kasik la dia lepas dulu. HIKS!".

But do you get the picture here? What yang mek try to relate here is that, kalau dipaksanya kahwin, sebelum the right time comes, dan tanpa kerelaan, seriously, chances that marriage nak survive tu, ade, tapi percentagenya bukannye tinggi pun. Pushing one to do something that org tu tannak, or worst, tak suka, akan menyebabkan something lebih teruk in the end. And what if dipaksa kahwin dengan someone yang either kite benci, or lebih zast, orang tu kite tak kenal pun? Do you actually believe "Kahwin dulu, bercinta kemudian?" Nahhh - mek tak percaya konsep tu. It worked for our parents, grandparents, and great²grandparents... but now, dah nak masuk tahun 2006. I don't think orang nak membuta tuli kawin dulu then baru bercinta dengan suami/ isteri yang practically strangers tu, kan? Dari buat camtu, baik lah timbulnya kes lepas dipaksa kahwin dengan orang yang kita dinch suka or tak kenal, then, pi bercinta dengan orang lain. Ha tu baru kes naya dan baru kena temakonsep, "KAHWIN DULU, CINTA KEMUDIAN - dengan orang lain..." Hehehehe...

Selalunya kes dipaksa kahwin nih jadik kat women, kan? Am not saying men tak pernah lari dari dipaksa kahwin, tapi kalau kita tgk statistics, its the women yang selalu kena paksa kahwin. And most of the time, these ladies yang dipaksa kahwin nih kan, ade dua possibilities. Satu, they're not with anyone. Or keduanya, they are with someone else, and believe me, if that's the case, dipaksa kawin dengan orang lain selain dari pilihan hatinya itiew, haiyoh, suatu malapetaka chenta yang sangat mek tak suka nak write about/ membacanye. Kesian ok. Like, hati ini utk si A, tapi dipaksanya kahwin dengan si B - sedeh kan? (bertambah sedeh kalau yang dipaksa kahwin tu pulak ade sorang lagik, si C, yang diam² sukakan B - haiyoh! Mana keadilannya itiew???)

Lets kita tgk, why, ape penyebabnye? Kenape these ppl dipaksa kahwin? Kalau ikutkan pemerhatian mek, ade beberape sebab why sometimes these men/ women di paksa kahwin...
  • Umur makin meningkat; bab umur meningkat nih, kalau for men, yang kertu dan masih tak kawin, tak menjadik issue sangat. Tapi kalau anak dara yang belum kahwin dan umur makin meningkat kertunya, haiyoh - mula org gelarkan andartu lah, itu la ini la, kan? I mean, kenape, why, kalau men tak kawin sampai dah tua bangka lutut berketar dan muka berkedut (not to mention the willy thingie pon also dah berkedut - hehehe), tak per pulak? Kalau dah sampai umur 70 tahun tua dah nak mampos pon, tak kawin, tak per? (yes, in the end, these org² tua nih sebok lah nak kawin dengan anak dara umur 19 tahun - MOTIF? Tu pun ade gak unsur² paksa kot...) Kalau pompuan masuk 30 lebih sikit jer, mula la nak sokseksoksek seluruh kampung. I mean... that is so ultimately unfair, don't you think so?

  • Dipaksa kahwin kerna harta; ade u ols kes² like this. Like, the girl dipaksakan kawin dengan a rich, fat, businessman. Dan yang nak kaut harta itiew, bukan the girl pon. Kalau the girl nak harta tu, it wouldn't be DIPAKSA la kan? I'm sure the girl rela hati kawin dengan org tua kedekut berharta tu, kan? Hiks! Nih musti kes parents yang paksa. Tgk la citer² dalam tv dulu². Anak yang terseksa dipaksa kahwin, makbapak yang dok syok ala² menang loteri 5juta. Hanjeng tak. And that brings me to another point. Kawin nih, siap ade maskawin dan duit hantaran nih, bagaikan u ols put harga pada anak perempuan u ols yang harus dibayar oleh pihak pengantin, kan? To me, letak ala² kadar, sebagai cukup syarat pun, jadi la, kan? That doesn't mean u ols low standard or miskin, just becoz u ols letak maskawin dan duit hantaran sikit, kan? Ini tak... letak maskahwin dan hantaran beribu² ringgit, ada kalanya mencecah berpuluhan ribu ringgit, utk apo? Tak sedar ke that is like selling anak u ols kepada pihak lelaki? Kalau suka sama suka rela, tak per la. Ini mek cakap kes anak gadis tu dipaksa kahwin. Haiyoh! Mek rase cam nak cekik jer makpak yang tak bertimbang rasa cam tu....

  • "Saya bukannye ape. Saya nak pastikan anak saya tu berjalan lurus, tak mau dah dia bengkang bengkok kekiri kanan dijalan sesat dengan lelaki lain. Sebab tu saya nak sangat anak lelaki saya tu kawin, bagi dia rasa 'nikmat' dengan perempuan..." - NAH! Anak pakcik Gay ek? And because of that, u ols paksa anak teruna pakcik tu kawin? Haiyoh! Here's the news. Berapa kerat sangat gayboys yang kawin dan ended up living happily ever after, as a straight guy!?!?!?!? ADO? Yes... ADO, tapi berape kerat sangat!? It rarely happens. Yang mek nampak selalu, kawin, dan lepas dapat anak, cerai. Kalau tak cerai pun, continue staying together tapi malam² tetap kuar carik jantan lain, how? Tak ke menyeksakan pompuan si isteri dan anak²nya? (if dia mampu dapatkan more than 1 anak la kan... LOL!). I mean, I still say, sape yang paksa dia kawin tu yang patut tanggung sebab yer la, kawan tu sikit punya tak ready nak kembalik lurus, alih² dipaksa dan kerana tannak menghampakan harapan makpak, pon kawinlah. Ini lah dinamanya, berlakon. What for? Ape lah faedahnya, nak please ppl tapi in the end, diri sendiri merana? Mek kadang² sentap nengok how some gayboys yang decided nak kawin (kalau DEPA sendiri nak kawin semata² nak cover line, itu mek no komen la kan. INI mek cakap kes parents depa PAKSA depa kawin sebab nak straightkan anak² depa nih balik... ) Tah lah u ols. I believe that marriage is a very sacret thing and both parties should know that an everlasting commitment is very important. Mampu ker nak give even a small amount of commitment pada cik 'Puks' kalau hati dok memberontak nak cik 'neks' dan cik 'tot'? KAN!?

  • Satu lagik mek venci when dipaksa kahwin gara² family empayar ataupun sebab parents tu kb (kawan baik) dan mereke rasa sesuai anak² mereka disatukan (ini macam kes harta la sikit sebanyak) - like, kalau mek terserempak dengan parents cam tu, mek nak tanya depa "SAPA yang nak kawin nih? Hampa semua ka, atau anak² hampa?" dan also "AWAT hampa yang nak kena buat keputusan yang akan melibatkan masa depan anak² hampa sampai ke anak cucu cicit mereka sendiri tu?" Seriously, mek tak paham lah konsep menyatukan anak² semata² kerana si mak bapak kedua² belah pihak tu baik, dan pernikahan itiew ala² akan merapatkan lagi hubungan baik, persahabatan mereka... TAK DER MAKNENYE! This case selalu jadik kalau parents (especially bapak) kedua² belah pihak tu ala² ada empayar bizness besau, dan nak besaukan lagik berlipat ganda - NIH la kesnya. TAMAK dan jadikkan ANAK² depa, ALASAN - disatukan demi martabat keluarga dan persahabatan lehhh? Kowser lah mek dengan makpak jenis cam tu!
Ok, now, lets kita nengok ape piula kebarangkalian, kesan² yang akan berlaku terhadap fenomena 'KAHWIN PAKSA' nih u ols... lets!
  • Kalau dipaksa kawin, kedua² mempelai dinch ado pilihan hati yang lain, dan kedua² rela berkenalan dan bercinta dan mulakan a family lepas kahwin, then, happy lah - the end... kan? TAPI, kalau buatnya depa tu ade pilihan hati yang lain, dan kerna terpaksa, telah berkahwin dan meninggalkan pilihan hati mereka itiew... MRASALAH depa carik MASALAH lepas kawin. You think they will simply let go dan mulakan hidup baru? I doubt. Kalau cinta sejati, mrasalah sampai ke tua bangka pon depa sanggup SCANDAL. Tak ke tu lebih teruk? Dah ler kawin sudah, pi scandal dengan pilihan hati. Kexi tau, but tak leh blame depa. Sebab scandal depa tu yang what they really wanted. Perkahwinan depa dengan pilihan org lain tu, bukan keputusan meke... KAN?

  • Haiii... kalau dah dipaksa kawin, gara² harta, PARAH ok... VERY! I mean, anything is possible. Like, penikaman belakang (ade kes TIKAM BETUL² dengan pisau ok, HOW?!) I mean, ever heard of kerna tamak harta, nyawa badan terancam? (pernah ke dengar? Ke, mek jer yang memandai buat phrase cam tu? LOL!). Seriously, kalau kawin yang dipaksa gara² harta, kemana sangat boleh pergi? Dimulakan hati dah sememangnya TAMAK dan busuk (bukan hati manusia yang dipaksa kawin tu. Maksud mek, hati kepada manusia yang memaksa itiew ler), dan kemudiannya bermulalah pengabaian, dan seterusnya, who know, leads to PERBALAHAN, kan?

  • Secara keseluruhannya, kalau kita lihat kes kahwin paksa nih, secara amnya, kebanyakkan won't last forever. It could last long but definitely not forever. I mean lets face it, like I said earlier on tadik, berape sangat yang bebetul bertahan lama? In the end, cerai - dan when this cerai berai kes happens, sape jadik mangsa? Yang dipaksa kawin tu la. Dan kalau dah ade anak, ANAK² kepada yang dipaksa kawin tu ALSO akan tanggung masalah dan berada dalam kesusahan ditinggalkan, KAN? Sedey lah kalau cam tu... ala, macam dalam drama² tu semua lar.

Apa pendapat korang tentang issue nih? For me - mek tak pernah agree dengan issue nih biarpun orang cakap "Ala, dulu² kan, kawin dulu, lepas tu baru datangnya cinta." Masalahnya, TU DULU! And mrasalah MASALAH kalau sekiranya lepas dah kawin dengan stranger yang dipaksa itiew, KALU TAK datang² jugak cintanya tu, HOW?!






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Posted at 11:49:01 am by Nurlea Laurielle Lai Lee Abdullah



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