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Sunday, March 12, 2006

Getting back together - Will it still be the same?



"So... how long has it been now? A week? A month?"

"Hello?!? It's been like 3 months dah tau!"

"Eleh! 3 months; bunyi riaknye persis 3 tahun - ceh!"

"Yer lah - 3 months and am over and done with dengan dia..."

"Sure or not ha? Jgn just sayin' it to make urself happy sedangkan you know for a fact that you still want him back!"

"HEY! Never ok! When I say I'm through with it, it means I'm through with it... Anyways, ape kes dok bringin' up this subject over and over again everytime we meet up ek?"

"Owhhh nuthin'..."

"Bullshit! As if I don't know you lar - mesti ade something u're hiding from me. Segera!"

"Well..."

"Common!!! I KNOW mesti ade something ni... "

"Hurmmm... Remy's been askin' about you..."

"REALLY!?!?!?!?!?!??!" it's one of those happy-smiles, with that extra big and wide smile, yes!

"Aik... katenye 'I'm so through with him...'? MANO!? ADO?"

In deed... forgetting about the man you once knew, once loved, once had sex with (oppps!), once in a beautiful relationship with, true, is a very hard thing to do. But it is not impossible I must say. Having your ex still missing you, still longing for you, still wanting you to come back, sometimes can be a very wonderful thing, knowing that he or she still wants you. But at times, it's sickening to know how he or she, the ex of yours, can't seem to let you go. "Owh common, get a life! Move on!" - yeap, you may say that to the other party over and over again; but what life does he or she has when you're not with him / her?

Well that's beside the point here... the point here is...

"So ape dia nak?"

"Motif interested to know???"

"Tak der lah - just, well, you know. Could you PLEASE answer the q!? Sick la with you, answering Qs with another Q!"

"Hehehe ok ok! He wants you back! THERE, happy!?!?!"

Happy at some point... I think. But on the other hand, one's mind can't stop thining about this... "Should I or Shouldn't I get back with him?" and personally, I would have another Q running in my mind... "If I get back with him, will it be the same as it once before?"

THAT'S the issue I would like to dwell upon in this entry (Die lah me with another LOVE entry! Whats up with me lately nih ek? Cintan Cintun Cintin sajork? How la?)

"Hello, Rinie...?"

"Remy? Wah... dah pandai guna private numbers skarang?"

"Haha... saje jer. Eh, ganggu ke?"

"Now? No la - tak der buat pa per pun... Why ek?"

"Wanna meet up for coffee or..." yes, Remy wasn't finished when Rinie apparently went and answered...

"YES...er..."

"Hehe... I belom habis cakap, you dah YES?"

"Well whatever it is that you're about to say, coffee or teh ke, jumpa lepakČ ke, I'd still say YES"

Was Remy desperate to get Rinie back, or was it Rinie who have been lying to herself for the past 3 months about that she's over and done with Remy?

Is doesn't matter what's the status like, it is clear to me that both parties wants each other back. For whatever reason, still, they want to get back to their exs. Even after breaking off for 3 months plus, still, they can't hide the fact that they still love each other and want to see each other again. But the question here is, will it still be the same?

Yes true - they've been together for like more than 3 years; through thick and thin, but it all ended when both of them can't take the pressure of goig through the PAIN anymore. And so they broke up, and for 3 months, Remy can't stop thinking about Rinie and it shows. And Rinie on the other hand, tried to show to the world that revolves around her, that she's all ok and fine and moved on. But the truth is, she's only pretending everything's alright, when it is not, actually. She still missed her Remy but scared that she's the only one feeling that way. Knowing now that Remy still think about her too, she's all geared up and happy to patch back things with Remy. But as I said earlier, in her mind, something kept on bugging her. Something that always make her think, over and over again... "WILL IT BE THE SAME?"

3 months back they broke off due to several reasosn. Remy can't stand the fame Rinie's getting by becoming a model; and the attention of course. Rinie on the other hand, can't face the fact that Remy's been giving his attention to someone else. So in the end, they broke up. But deep inside, both of them still longing for each other. And that's why they intend to make things right this time. But still, making things right this time, still won't answer my question - WILL IT EVER BE THE SAME? We can try to make it but the absolute truth would be - NO, IT WILL NEVER BE THE SAME AGAIN.

"Why ek? Takkan laaaa 3 bulan break, org tu dah boleh berubah and if they get back together, they won't be like what they used to be? Ish - tak kot..."

One might question that way - but the thing is; it doesn't matter how long the break up was, even if it was just for a week, things WILL NEVER be the same again. There'll be this somesort of a gap already between them. Sometimes people tend to neglect to see this gap but this gap is whats making them apart. And if we don't see to it, the gap will sooner or later becomes wider and that's when you part for the second time. That's why they say, once broken considered sold? Meaning - once broken, the thing will not be as it was once before, correct?

Another reason why I say THINGS WILL NEVER BE THE SAME AGAIN LIKE IT USED TO BE - human will always be human, and mistakes will eventually repeat, eventhough you try your level best not to repeat it. But being human, weak as we are, we tend to overlook at stuffs. Stuffs like... "Owh I've got Rinie back. So if I kantoi again this time, nanti we'll get back together jugak... " It's like, TAK SERIK? :)

I don't know about you people, but I've experienced once about this 'patching-things up again' and in deed, no matter how hard you try to work things out, it turned out to be 'not the same as it was once before"...



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Posted at 10:43:52 am by Nurlea Laurielle Lai Lee Abdullah

carlos_isqandar
March 12, 2006   05:48 PM PST
 
que sera sera...
what will be..
will be...
volks-vw
March 12, 2006   06:11 PM PST
 
la la la la la la la...... ;)
nich
March 13, 2006   12:28 AM PST
 
lady..
thanks so much
Nurlea Laurielle
March 13, 2006   01:41 AM PST
 
nich: NO HAL sweetie! :)

carlos, Volks - ONLINE DI CC YANG SAMA LAH TU! Hanjs! kata nya dah break up - KAWAN MASIH la? hahahah
Nurlea Laurielle
March 13, 2006   01:45 AM PST
 
Owh yes - INFO! RINIE and REMY tu - DIADAČKAN sajork yer - tak der kaitan dengan memana RINIE atau memana REMY tau! hehehe
dayana
March 15, 2006   04:16 PM PST
 
Hi lady lea...here to comment on this entry...btw...nice blog! ;)

I believe that things will nver be the same...at the same time, it shouldn't be the same.

Personally, I feel that if things stayed the same, that means no one learned anything from the break-up...except 'I miss you, you miss me...'
You're right, that ppl make mistakes...but how many times do they have to go thru it to make things right? Although kite hanya manusia, we are in control of what we do.
So, say Rinie and Remy wants to work it out...don't be afraid of the changes,but learn something from each other. Respect each other, be honest, and ask questions. if they sincerely want each other, they can talk about what happened...but be ready to hear what the other has to say. No one has, to like it. no one has, to accept it. But listen...if one has something to say, say it...
The longer the time you take to express everything, the longer the crisis will go on...internally...and be ready to see something you never saw in the other person...it's either you'll like it, or not...it's up to you...

Just sharing my thoughts here... ;)
Cheers...



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