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Thursday, January 05, 2006

How do you say Goodbye?


Ever experience this problem? I mean, having problems in saying goodbye? That situation normally happens when the goodbye wish you wanted to say tu tak datangnya dengan rela hati. In other words, you belum bersedia to say goodbye - and that's a tough one...

Call it belum bersedia but I think kalau people have to say goodbye pada waktu yang belum sepatutnya diucapkan, I call it TERPAKSA. And who says bendeČ relating with "terpaksa" nih can be an easy thing to do? If it's easy, then I doubt people would address it as TERPAKSA, kan? They would probably call it, RELA HATI.

Sometimes, saying Goodbye tu, adalah sesuatu yang, how should I say it, terbaik? I mean, depending on the situation la kan.

Dalam entry ini, lets take a look at 2 fine examples. Satu bersangkut paut dengan PERSAHABATAN, satu lagi, well - you've guessed it right, PERCINTAAN...

  • Bismi: Ini kali ketiga kau buat perangai macam ni! Bukan aku tak bagi peluang - tapi kau selalu siaČkan saja peluang yang aku kasi, kan?
  • Tiqa: Bismi, tolong la. Aku bukan sengaja. Aku macam just can't help it.
  • Bismi: Itu la, sekali suke berbohong, selamanya pembohong kau tau tak?
  • Tiqa: Jgn la cakap macam tu. Aku bukan sengajaČ suka membohongi kau.
  • Bismi: Sengaja atau tidak, kau dah pon membohongi aku - ini kali ketiga Tiqa. Aku dah tak leh terima. Aku tak leh berkawan dengan orang yang suka tipu aku. Bukan hanya kau tipu aku dari belakang, kau terangČan tipu depan aku.
  • Tiqa: Bismi... please?
  • Bismi: Tiqa, persahabatan kita berlandaskan kepercayaan. Macam mana kau expect aku utk terus bersahabat dengan kau sekiranya kau masih lagi beperangai macam ni? Walaupun it's against my principals, tapi aku tetap beri kau 2 peluang. Dan dua dua peluang kau siaČkan... Aku sayangkan persahabatan kita, tapi aku terpaksa...
  • Tiqa: Bismi!!!

Bagi Tiqa, bohong adakalanya saves her ass. Tapi not with Bismi. It was against Bismi's friendship foundation.

Bagi Tiqa, dia terpaksa berbohong atas sebabČ tertentu. Namun, bagi Bismi, dia TERPAKSA say goodbye to Tiqa, setelah sekian lama bersahabat. This is  one fine example of how some people TERPAKSA say goodbye tanpa kerelaan. Bukan Bismi tak sayangkan persahabatan yang terjalin antaranya dan Tiqa; tapi kerana tidak sanggup go through another lie from Tiqa, Bismi just had to.

Hi Babyboo...
Sender:
Sayang
+60126*61*6*
Sent:
09:38:19pm
01-01-2006

B?
Sender:
Sayang
+60126*61*6*
Sent:
09:39:59pm
01-01-2006

Yer...
Recipient:
Sayang
+60126*61*6*
Sent:
10:02:19pm
01-01-2006

Kenape ni? Where are u? Are u ok?
Sender:
Sayang
+60126*61*6*
Sent:
10:09:41pm
01-01-2006

Are you ok?
Sender:
Sayang
+60126*61*6*
Sent:
10:11:10pm
01-01-2006

Yes and no...
Recipient:
Sayang
+60126*61*6*
Sent:
10:15:51pm
01-01-2006

Kenape nih B?
Sender:
Sayang
+60126*61*6*
Sent:
10:16:42pm
01-01-2006

I don't know... 2 years Yang... 2 years we're together. Until now I STILL don't know where I stand in your life!
Recipient:
Sayang
+60126*61*6*
Sent:
10:19:05pm
01-01-2006

Loh... kenape ni? Apa I dah buat?
Sender:
Sayang
+60126*61*6*
Sent:
10:21:37pm
01-01-2006

I feel as if I don't mean anything to you. When you're with your friends, you seperti lupakan I. When you're back home all alone, that's when you think of me. So, correct me if I'm wrong but, I feel as if I'm being used by you whenever you're all alone. I am sick, and I'm not getting better. Day by day, I'm tired; tired of crying every night missing you. But I don't think you missed me pun, kan?
Recipient:
Sayang
+60126*61*6*
Sent:
10:25:47pm
01-01-2006

Baby... apa pasal cakap macam tu? I love you. I missed u. Ok I know I may have like neglected you whenever I'm with my friends, but you must understand that I do love you no matter what.
Sender:
Sayang
+60126*61*6*
Sent:
10:29:02pm
01-01-2006

I love you too, and you know that. But sometimes I think you forget about me, and when that happens, that's when I feel so down and miserable
Recipient:
Sayang
+60126*61*6*
Sent:
10:31:13pm
01-01-2006

I love you B...
Sender:
Sayang
+60126*61*6*
Sent:
10:39:45pm
01-01-2006

All I ever wanted from you was you, and your love, your attention. Tak pernah I hadapkan your money, your wealth, your social status, nothing of that sort.
Recipient:
Sayang
+60126*61*6*
Sent:
10:40:54pm
01-01-2006

:( Am sorry...
Sender:
Sayang
+60126*61*6*
Sent:
10:41:48pm
01-01-2006

I can't take it anymore. I'm sorry too. But I believe its for the best. I hate to do this but I just had to. Maafkan B if this action I'm about to take will eventually hurt you. But I've made up my mind; been doing a lot of thing and I feel that this is not right, but it's the best solutions I've got...
Recipient:
Sayang
+60126*61*6*
Sent:
10:46:21pm
01-01-2006

B? What are you trying to say here B?
Sender:
Sayang
+60126*61*6*
Sent:
10:48:19pm
01-01-2006

It's over... you and me... I'm sorry
Recipient:
Sayang
+60126*61*6*
Sent:
11:00:00pm
01-01-2006

Things didn't work out between Sayang and his Baby - Yes.
Baby had to call it off, the relationship - Yes.
Baby was the one yang had to say Goodbye - Yes.
It's for the best - Yes.
Another GOODBYE yang TERPAKSA - Most definitely.

Try putting yourself dalam situasi Baby tu. You think it's easy to let go a guy yang digilai ramai? You think it's an easy thing to say bye bye to a guy yang dia cintakan whole-heartedly? Do you think that it's Baby's easiest decision to leave the man of her life and then expects to live happily ever after? Well, it's a tough one I bet, but like what Baby said earlier... "It's for the best". It might not be the right move, NOW, but it's the BEST solution so far for Baby and soon I know, and I believe, things will be better for her. How long will it take? Wallahu'alam...

And so for you, do you think you could pull of that stunt? Saying Goodbye when it is not the right time to do so?




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Posted at 10:40:43 pm by Nurlea Laurielle Lai Lee Abdullah

ezyane
January 6, 2006   12:55 AM PST
 
Kdg2 Tuhan sembunyikan matahari,
DIA datangkan petir dan kilat,
kita menangis dan tertanya-tanya kemana hilangnya matahari,
rupa2nya Tuhan hendak memberi kite pelangi...

Janganlah berputus asa,
tetapi sekiranya kita berada dalam keadaan putus asa,berjuanglah terus,meskipun dalam keadaan putus asa...

Be strong Lea...
katadah.warriors
January 6, 2006   07:36 AM PST
 
dan bila perkaraČ mcm nih berlaku.. kengkawan sentiasa ada..
kawan yang baik adalah yang bersamaČ ketika susah dan senang..

ikh.. apa aku merepek pepagi bute nih... ishhh
dshashay
January 6, 2006   08:15 AM PST
 
Perpisahan adalah lumrah kehidupan .. we all hv 2 accept it no matter how bad it is.. life must go on lea ... yg penting diri sendiri must be able to move on .. ni nasibbaik perpisahan ini ader goodbye ..kalu yg meninggal dunia x sempat nak say bye-bye lagi sede
aD
January 6, 2006   09:07 AM PST
 
yep.. dat is sOo true Lea.. *btw, kinda touched bila baca 2nd situation tu - is it real?*..
eza_longoria
January 6, 2006   12:13 PM PST
 
lea sayang... itulah lumrah kehidupan bagi DQ dan insan malang sepeti kiter nier tak pernah ader yang benar2 benar ikhlas menyayangi. (sambil air mata bergenang di kelopak). Aku pasrah dengan takdir yang menimpa, sampai biler kah nasib ku akan sentiasa begini... warggggggggggghhh(terus teriak sampai air mater melimpah)..Lea sayang kiter cumer mampu merancang, pempuan lahanat jugak yang dapat dorang.... sedih...keji... jantan sumer samer nok... takper janji lea tetap maintain k... sayang lea.. muahhhh..
aD
January 7, 2006   11:44 AM PST
 
err.. depends on type of "pompuan" jugak la cik eza_longoria syg.. (cheq tetiba sentap ngan statement tu).. *lol*.. cheq pompuan gak.. tp, "pompuan senget".. *grin*



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