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Monday, November 07, 2005

10 ways to ask him/ her out!


Heheeh - mek kindda like suke juge dengan entry title kali ini. Ala² I got the idea while I was browsing the internet for ... tah!? What was I surfing tah sampai tetiber mek managed to get this issue. Mek dosi baca, dan tetiber mek also dapat idea nak blogkan satu entry bertitle gini. Classic, kan? Hiks!

As we ols semua tahu kan, there are like ten gazillion ways nak ask him or her out on a date with ya. Mrasalah different people, different stylos and strategies. Article yang mek baco tu was at MSN rasanya... lets go through the article, shall we yes? Hiks...

10 ways to ask him out
By Margot Carmichael Lester

Sadie Hawkins Day is commonly celebrated in November. It's the one day a year where asking a guy for a date is not only allowed, it’s encouraged. Check out these smart strategies and field-tested opening lines:

1. “The last woman to ask me out did it by saying she was interested in exploring old L.A.,” he relates. “Being a native Angelino, pre-World War II L.A. is a fascination of mine and I gladly volunteered. I later found out she’d done her homework. She didn’t care about historic L.A.; she just knew I was interested and wanted an excuse to ask me out. It worked.” – Chaz Westwood, Diamond Bar, CA

2. “Would your girlfriend mind if I bought you a drink?” – Emily Dubberly, author of Brief Encounters: The Women’s Guide to Casual Sex. (This is a cute, flirty way to start a conversation and find out if he has a girlfriend.)

3. “Ask him to have coffee. It’s low-risk and almost everyone has time for coffee.” – Linda Radcliffe, Montgomery, AL

4. “Give him a box of dates (the edible variety) and say, ‘How about a date?’” – Samantha Cade, Chicago, IL

5. “Why not just ask him to do something casual and fun that you both enjoy, like going to a dirt track race?” – Jimmy Jones, Columbia, SC

6. “Put a smart, sassy subject line on your email to make sure it gets noticed.” – Joe Hilpert, Albuquerque, NM

7. “If you're at a book-reading or poetry festival or wine-tasting, ask him to join you for another similar event. Or, for more immediate gratification, ask him to go on a shopping trip with you to pick up a book or a bottle—or maybe both!” – Pat Roget, Albany, NY

8. “Create a puzzle card that the guy has to put together to transcribe the message, or go to crosswordpuzzle.com and create a personal crossword puzzle to ask him out.” – Carol Bradstreet, Raleigh, NC

9. “Make sure you’re wearing stilettos when you ask him out. They just may help seal the deal.” – Goldie Moore, Seattle, WA

10. “If you’ve been flirting like crazy or just believe in a direct approach, blot your lipstick on a white napkin and write, ‘Call me at…’” – Patrick Britt, Nashville, TN

Margot Carmichael Lester is a Carrboro, North Carolina-based writer and the author of The Real Life Guide to Life After College.

But generally for moi la kan, ade some of the 10 ways listed kat atas dalam article itiew, I would personally use also; contoh like cara number 2, 3, 4, 5 and 10! Hehehe - tapi la kan, kalau dalam donia nyata dalam kehidupan mek nih, mek rase, cara² yang akan lebih praktikal for me to use would be the ones yang mek akan listkan kat bawah ni (mek nye cecara nih tak der lah sampai 10 - cukup la 7 jer yg mampu mek pikirkan. Heheeh - mek nih bukannye pandai sngt bab² ni. Mek kan pemalu! Hiks!)

Ini lah cara²nya mek rase mek akan selalu gunakan to get him / her out with me (well, in my case, it's definitely a HE la kan. Motif nak ajak a SHE kuar date ngan mek? Mek bukan CD ok! Opppps!)

1. Ask a friend to pass him my digits (tapi make surela kawan u ols tu dinch tasty kat ciktan tu. Kang dicelahbedahnye ciktan tu, tak sepasal² jer u ols sendirian lagiks katanya! Hiks!) - usually ini lah cara paling, direct. Kan? Mrasalah mek samakan stylo nih like cara number 10 kat atas tu. Cuma for me, mek dinch mau bazirkan lipsepetik mek on a napkin just to tunjuk sexy la katanya, kan? Hiks!

2. Kalau dinch mau kasik number kiew kepadanya, mrasalah mek akan sokseksoksek around; kot² la ade sape² yang kenal dia and ado number phone dia. Hiks!

3. Jadik secret admirer. Mek suke stylo nih. Walaupun it'll probably take u a longer period of time to get him out with ya, tapi usually, style nih selalu mengena sebab lepas lama kelamaan, pasti dia nak kuar jugak dengan peminat secretnye itiew, kan? Hehehe. And with this technique, mrasalah we get the chance to know more about him sebelum kite actually kuar on a date wth him, tul tak? :)

4. Kalau si dia itiew ado kawan, dan kawan dia ade kawan, dan kawan kepada kawan si dia tu also kenal u ols, mrasalah adekan gathering kecil ke, party bagai ke ape ke; invite semuanya, open table kat Uptown ke ape ke - biar lah activity itiew persis nampak macam a group activity, tapi hanya u ols yang ade that dark secret agenda i.e. nak get close to him. This way, tak der lah nampak obvious sangat yang u ols hadapkan dia sangat, kan? Hiks!

5. Ini usually, orang yang with good PR skill sajo yang brani mampos buat - go directly to him dan nyatakan hasrat dihati. This stylo walaupun mek tak berkenan, tapi personally, ade jugak mek beranikan diri face to face ngan si dia tu and tanye dia... "You wanna go out and hang out or somethin' this weekend?" - Cara ini, u ols kena berani tanggung consequencesnye. Buatnya dia say YES, ok la - Buatnya dia say NO, well - it might kecikkan hati u tapi hey, honesty is the best policy, kans? Hiks!

6. Berhubung via EMAIL to get you and him closer dulu dan nyatakan hasrat u ols via email. Lagi senang. Tak yah cakap dan guna suara, kan? Tapi becareful - cara ni, takut gak. Pemilihan kata² itiew penting u ols. Takut nanti disalah tafsirkan ke ape ke, kan? Ingat - setiap perbuatan ade baik buruknya. Senantiasalah berwaspada katanya...

7. Kalau ade number phone dia, mrasalah mek prefer SMS dengan dia. Hehehehe. Calling² satu hal, but SMS pon, boleh tahan jugak ok! Cara nih la selalunya paling senang nak get him to go out with moi. Tapi kena lah pandai atur bahasa - jgn mai pakai redah jer!

U ols piuler, bagaimana? Sama ker cara u ols nak get him/ her out with ya dengan mek, ataupun, cara u ols berbeza? Kalau yer - mrasalah letak cara² u ols tu kat my comment area tu nah!



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Posted at 2:21:09 am by Nurlea Laurielle Lai Lee Abdullah

uculer
November 12, 2005   11:51 PM PST
 
nak ajak kuar? 'eh jom kuar esok. bosan la'



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