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Tuesday, October 25, 2005

One Night Stand...


Di dalam sebuah bilik tidur mewah, di dalam sebuah rumah bungalo di Damansara, two strangers, A dan B tgh bersediap sedias nak... you know... hiks! (tak kisah lah A dan B tu, laki dengan pompuan ke, pompuan dengan pompuan ke, laki dengan laki ke ape ke - ikut suka korang la nak bayangkan situasi ini. Tapi dalam entry mek ni, si A tu, LELAKI dan B tu, perempuan...)

  • A: Are you ok with ONS? (one night stand)
  • B: Yeah, I guess... sure - am fine with it. I hate commitments anyways - so, wanna get down to it now? (this sounds more like a guy with another guy, KAN? Hmmm aper² jer lah ek...)
  • A: Sure thang, baybeh!...

And the rest, mek tak payah la nahhh nak citer aoe jadik, nah? Tooo 18SX la nak go into details. Pepandai ajo lah korang guna imaginasi korang tu, ek? ... So, afterwards, selepas selesai mem'binatang'kan diri... hehehe...

  • A: That was supperb!!! (sambil lap peluh)
  • B: Really?
  • A: Yeah...
  • B: Cool...

And then suddenly dua² went silent, kelu seribu bahasa. Pepaham ajo la kan, dah puas, so ala² nak tak nak aje la kan melayan... tetiber...

  • B: So...
  • A: So?
  • B: I erm...
  • A: Yes?
  • B: Nah... nothing. I guess I better get dressed up and make my move... you pun maybe tired...
  • A: Ok...

And so B pun started pakai baju semua, and A pakai his shorts (or was it brief? Hmmm - EH!? Motif details!? Chis!) So... waktu dah nak keluar from the bedroom, B stopped sekejap. Yang si A nih pulak, macam, "WTF???"

  • A: Why, whats wrong? Left something?
  • B: Ermmmm... nah... nothing...
  • A: Ok... so after you...

Wah, A dah macam dah nak menghalau si B nih kuar dah ni. Dah macam, "Yer lah, the 'thing' is over - am tired - so apo ko tunggu lagik? Brambus jer la..." - hehehehe... As B tgh turun the tangga, B had to just cakap somethin'...

  • B: So, wanna keep in touch?
  • A: Nah... told ya am a ONS type of guy... sorry...
  • B: Nah... it's ok. Was just askin' - sekadar bertanye orang katakan? Hehehe...

YEAH RIGHT! Sebenarnya... B dah dalam dilema. Sepanjang 2 jam bergelumang atas katil tadik tu, dia dah felt something for this A fella. And tadik waktu memula yang dia stopped tetiber kat depan pintu bilik, on the way out from the room tu, MEMANG he (B) left somethin' in the room... HATInya...

Yes u ols, hatinya dah terlekat-tinggal pada si A yang candiew, jerz dan lazarts itiew. Tapi, bukan ke tadik awal² dia (B) cakap dia tak kisah A tu sorang ONS type of guy? Alih², motif! nak jatuh hati terlekat hati bagai nih?? Dan when B asked pasal nak 'keep in touch' tu, B was merely tryin' dia punye luck, kot² si A tu pon, dari nak ONS, tetiber nak lelebih, KAN? After all, si A tu DID cakap that the session with B was SUPPERB - so who can blame B for feeling lelebih, kan!?

Ini lah yang cuba mek kupaskan u ols. Bermula as one night stand action-filled moments, tetiber, tah dari mana, di mana dan bagaimana, hati mula terpaut. Kalau dua² mutually jatuh hati to each other, then, tak per lah kan. MASALAHNYA sekarang, kalau jadik case cam nih. Si A tu tak der mende pon, si B yang over. Tapi tak leh jugak salahkan B kan - soal² hati dan prasaan ni, ANYTIME jer boleh terjadi, betul tak?

So pulanglah si B tu, all sedey and what not; soalan - why perlu sedeh? Yer lah, sebab dia dah madly deeply syiok sama itiew A tapi dia tau A tak nak proceed jiwang² bagai ni, kan? SO macam mana dengan B? SEDEH la jawabnya dan si A, biaso saja. Kesian... Tu la, awal² tadik cakap tak kisah la ape la (sah sah la sebab nafsu dah meluak², kan? Anything goes lah kan), kan? And like I said, tak leh nak salahkan si B also sebab mana dia nak tahu dalam pada tgh dok rembak atas katil itiew, dia akan jatuh hati dengan si A itiew, KAN?

Ini lah sengsaranya ONS - the risk u have to take. Kalau u're strong enuff to deal with it, proceed lor. Kalau u ols tahu hati u ols lemah, dan mudah jatuh hati cintan liuk lentuk bagai dengan partner ONS tu, awal² lagi, better la back off u ols. Kang jadik macam si B nih, sapo nak jawab? Menghoyan si B sengsorang lah jadiknya pada si A yang dah tak pedulik dah pon ape² hal lepas malam itiew... kan?

ONS, wanna call people yang mengamalkannya as 'Bangsat' or 'Binatang' - go ahead, tapi itulah reality kehidupan folks. Bile bermain dengan ONS nih, harus diingati bahawasanya it is only meant for pleasure dan no hanky panky dengan hati dan prasaan ini (NOTE/ DISCLAIMER: MEK BUKAN MENGGALAKKAN ONS NAH!) Kite tak leh nak marah orang macam si A yang memang suke nak ONS jer - maybe sebab dia malas nak pening²kan kepala with relationships and what not - so dia prefer ONS jer. Ini bukan skadar apply to gay male to male ONS tau, male to female or female to female pon ado also yang suka just ONS (so jgn nak menuding jari pada gays/ lesbians/ nyahs/ drags jer yang suke ONS tau... - sebab STRAIGHT people pon ade yang gilakan ONS stylo - kalau idak, masakan ado PLAYGIRLS or PLAYBOYS, KAN!?) So jalan mudah bagi orang macam A to have FUN with NO commitments, adalah melalui ONS (yeah yeah, like I said, bukannye bagus sangat pon ONS nih kan - tapi, dah lumrah alam)

TAPI katakan lah, dalam situasi tadik tu, si A dapat detect yang B sukakan dia... dan KERANA TANNAK KECIKKAN HATI another manusia i.e. B tu, si A telah decided to play along with si B - proceed nak keep in touch, dan soon, bercintan one sided (B yang gila bercinta serious nih, dan si A, skadar go along sajo) - this could also happen tau u ols. Dan also, maybe its true, A also cintakan si B lepas that ONS tu... contoh...

    "I'm sorry but I just couldn't stop thinkin' about ya... I think I dah jatuh cinta dengan u..." SMS from si A to si B.
Mau tak meloncat bak kera/ beruk kena belacan? Bagaikan pucuk dicita ulam mendatang la kan. So tak per lah. Ini case mutual, dua dua sama² syok - I love u, u love me, bla bla bla - so tak der lah masalahnya....

Tapi berbalik pada issue sekiranya si A skadar melayan si B kerana kesian - u ols! Kawan mek ade sorang cam ni. Dia jumpa this one guy. And they had ONS sex pada mulanya. Tapi lepas tu they both jatuh cinta (so it seems lah). Dan they went on coupling bagai semua, tapi soon, lepas tu, baru dapat tau, mamat tu melayan kawan mek nih sebab memula dia RASA memang dia sukakan kawan mek - tapi lama kelamaan dia sedar dia sukakan si kawan mek nih SEBAB KESIAN/ takut nak kecikkan hati kawan mek yang dah gilakan dia. Hujung hari, they ended up the relationship... dan kawan mek dapat sms...

    "I think we better jadi kawan saja kot. I admit I memang lousy bab jadik lover tapi kalau jadik your best friend, hey, I'm on top of the list - thats what I do best..."
CAM MANO!? Hujung harinya, kawan mek (persis si B tadik tu) jugak lah yang sengsara! HAIYOYOH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

So kesimpulannya disini mek nak katakan - bila otak dah set ONS pada mulanya, dan kalau pada pertengahannya ade secebis hati memberontak nak lebih daripada ONS, FORGET IT! ABAIKAN. Sebab if you proceed, ENDINGnya nanti, hang jugak akan 'kena'. TAPI kalau waktu pertengahan tu u ols dah abaikan soal hati yang memberontak tu, mek believe that by the end of the day, ENDINGnya will be ok. Kalau tak ok pon, at least, tak der lah SETERUK kalau u proceed main dengan prasaan u ols tu... tul tak? :)

DISCLAIMER: Entry nih mek buat TAK DER KAITAN dengan sape² pon. Kalau ade, itu hanyalah KEBETULAN sajo... nah? Hiks! (except yang story pasal kawan mek yang persis si B itiew, nah? Hheheeh)



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Posted at 11:29:37 pm by Nurlea Laurielle Lai Lee Abdullah

Kak Nam Bersuara
October 26, 2005   12:13 AM PDT
 
To tell you the truth, I never believe in ONS. Brings more problem rather solve any. When it comes to sex, how hard you ignore it, it will still effects your feelings. And feeling susah kita nak control. Secekal mana pun kita cakap kita boleh control, kalau dah nak jatuh cinta tu maka jatuh cinta la jugak.

So buang masa je ONS ni ye kawan kawan. Baik tunggu dan simpan untuk org yang love us as much as we love them.

Emosi pulak kak nam memalam ni.. hehehe :D
Scandinavia
October 26, 2005   12:14 AM PDT
 
Lea, is there any istilah as One Day Stand ODS? I guess, utk mengelakkan dr jatuh cintan akibat ONS, try ODS, i might work...hikss
5thE
October 26, 2005   12:24 AM PDT
 
ONS

Orang Nak *** .... itu aje.. sengsara bile ONS berkait dgn FEELINGS... pas tu nak jadi kawan..aiyoo?? tak rela! huhuhu...

itulah dia ONS....
fiebie
October 26, 2005   01:50 AM PDT
 
bila kita ons, macam kita gih cikcur lah. dinch kissy kissy mulut, kangkang and get it over with. pastu blah, sebab kita dah set mind gitu. tapi bila ceknek orang tu memberangsangkan, dan bila dah masuk sampai terpancut-pancut, dan cando, ala terkesima lah jugak kejab kan. ekekekkekeke
Nurlea Laurielle
October 26, 2005   02:12 AM PDT
 
Fiebs... betul tu u ols. ALa ala macam Pretty Woman tu la kan, si sapa namanya...dinch mau kisssy² richard gere tu? alahai.. apa lah namanya tah... that actress... ish... owh yes! *setelah 1 minit pikir* JULIA ROBERT! HAHHAAH
Nurlea Laurielle
October 26, 2005   02:13 AM PDT
 
5thE: ONS, bukan skadar One Night Stand - malah, ONE NIGHT SEX katanya? heheheh mek suke!

SCAN - ONE DAY STAND? mrasalah buat sex tgh² hari katanya? Kalau bulan posa how>
Nurlea Laurielle
October 26, 2005   02:14 AM PDT
 
Kak Nam: u ols dinch believe in ONS kan. Mek do. APA KATA u ols kasik Zaid u ols ONS ngan mek sat... 5 jam pon jadik la! HAHAHAHA

*AMPUN kak nam. mlawak ja nah. Mek tasty kat zaid tu tang GOATEE NYO SAJO.. bole? hehehehe
nini
October 26, 2005   06:32 AM PDT
 
Please, that is so naive and stupid of people nowadays to have casual sex and expect something to come out from it. B sounds like typical pathetic women that my male friends keep bitching over to me. A penny for the thought, if you don't respect yourself by having sex simply like that, how would those people that you shagged respect you then?
Exactly. He already shagged you without having to play a part in a relationship with you so don't expect him to commit later just because both of you just had sex.
carlos_isqandar
October 26, 2005   09:34 AM PDT
 
Does ONS would also lead to being sex buddy?
....a penny for thought *maybe this was the case for B, after a good 'service' by A*
Adakah si A is just a gigolo/social escort? without B realising it or may know about it? ....just like the movie "The Wedding Date"
*thats sexplain the good service and sexperience of A*
Nurlea Laurielle
October 26, 2005   09:41 AM PDT
 
Nini... aiyoh... zast komen anda ek? Memang dinch menyukai ONS kah? Mek pong sama. Tapi mek nak ONS dengan MARCUS u ols tu, leh dak? HEHEHE
Nurlea Laurielle
October 26, 2005   09:42 AM PDT
 
Carlos - errrrrrr... I TOT dalam citer mek tu, B was the one with good/ great sex skills? *Kejaps mek pong dah poning. HEHEHE
neo_denish
October 26, 2005   09:45 AM PDT
 
ONS...ermm neo prefer MNS..many night stand lorr hehe..LL telling u the truth..im so touched bila baca entry ni..and..i guess u know.why..
CD
October 26, 2005   10:20 AM PDT
 
Bila CD baca entry ONS nih, i can't help myself from sharing with you guys my experience, so that we could have a rather fair perspective on this issue.

3 bulan lepas, CD kenal dgn satu anak ikan nih kat LRT station. Knowing melah kan, CD mengedik mcm biasa, Lepas tukar ph no, esoknya mlmnya kami meterai perjanjian syaitan, lalu membinatangkan diri.

Memandangkan pd ketika iteww dia sudah befBF & CD pun masih dlm edah, sebelum menonggeng, kami berjanji utk berONS shj.

Tapi, janji tinggal janji. Esok mlm, lusa malam, minggu depan malamnya kami terus mengulangi aktiviti haram itu secara terus menerus. Kosep ONS sudah bertukar menjadi ENS (Every Nite Stand). 3 minggu selepas itu dia tinggalkan BF dia & came in to live in with me as a couple (Hiks, mek dinch sengaja celah bedah u ols).

Since, secara naturenya kedua-dua kami adalah bermata keranjang & bernafsu binatang, maka kami metrai perjanjian lagi , why don’t we try an "open relationship". Maksudnya CD boleh menyundal dgn sesapa saja, & dia boleh pergi membinatangkan diri dgn org lain. As long as , we come back onto our bed and held each other’s arm every night. This is our first experience, and surprisingly it works (for the time beinglah) . It’s very practical.

Kesimpulannya.. CD seru u ols semua utk try out new things & discover new experience while we are still capable of doing so Jgn limitkan kebebasan dan kehendak kita dgn terlalu rigidly terikat dgn principle & commitments. Semua tu tak membawa anda ke mana-mana dlm PLU r’ship. Sama ada anda mengamalkan ONS ker, LTR ke LDR ke, Polygamy/ Monogamy ke, “I’m faithfully yours” ker.. CD sarankan agar u ols enjoy every minute and every moment of it even for a second. Sebabnya.. all of it won’t last. In fact, the sweetest memory that you’ve gained from a relationship will eventually stay forever in your mind.

Cheers.

CD: teruja utk menulis panjang2, lantaran ada free time sikit kat opis ni. hiks
Nurlea Laurielle
October 26, 2005   10:32 AM PDT
 
Neo... mek paham u ols. Mek mintak makhap dah awal² kalau entry nih sedikit sebanyak ade sangkutpaut dengan kehidupan reality seseorang. Mek skadar buat entry.
Nurlea Laurielle
October 26, 2005   10:34 AM PDT
 
NAH!!!!! Kalau CD kasik komen, brilliantly panjang sundel! NANGIS!
nini
October 26, 2005   11:15 AM PDT
 
I have nothing against ONS as I know the rules.......just can't help to wonder how stupid some women could get everytime I have some male friends bitching about women who keep disturbing them after having casual sex.
Marcus is not feeling up to ONS as he is happily attached to me :P



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